Recalibrate.

 

We only know what the sweetness of happiness is --

by experiencing the opposite. And we only know how crushing sadness can be, by experiencing happiness. Our life is a constant spectrum, bouncing endlessly between these two basic states. Yet, when we truly reflect this Dunya is not our place of eternal salvation. It is merely our testing ground and path to that eternal happiness, that all human so naturally crave.

So let's recalibrate the GPS of our lives.

Let's make our destination is God.

Indeed, ever lasting contentment will only come from being close to Him.

May our road to our Lord be paved with divine love, light and grace always.

💓🛫

p/s : O' Allah ease my heart

Work.

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People are afraid to take action and create a better future for themselves because they are too worried about what others will think of them. Instead of learning how to REALLY make a difference in their lives, they work hard ; as everybody does.

The thing is --

If hard work alone had helped to create success and wealth,

everyone hardworking the 9-5 would have been a millionaire by now.

There is a specific reason why out of 33.5 millions people in Malaysia, there are only 17 billionaires.

The key to success is not working hard

but,

is to be able to work smart.

-

p/s : Allah ya Ghani ya Mughni

Forever.

 

Now that I have seen and experienced so much in my life. I feel that forever is not time bound. Although it is a measure of time but in actual sense, it lies in the small moments that you keep creating as life goes on. Those moments become memories and those memories last till you breathe.

The real meaning of 'forever' signifies loyalty and truthfulness. You giving this word to the person you love, requires honesty in it and you must remain intact as long as you exist in this world.

Let me quote the cliche line --

LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE

Yes!

Had you been aware of the coming times, you would be so conscious that you could never be able to enjoy the present. Don't you agree? And now, you don't know what is next and you cannot foresee the coming tomorrow.

So, you gotta love, care, create, feel and live in between the seconds and the minutes. Understand that your 'forever' is right now, here in this very moment by the side of the person you love and to whom you will love eternally.

'Forever' is hidden in the small moments.

P / s : Count your blessings.

Terluka.

Kita yang terluka

dan mereka bilang

kita terlalu berlebihan.

Kita yang terluka

dan mereka bilang

kita terlalu mengada-ngada.

Kita yang terluka

dan mereka berpura-pura lupa

kalau mereka adalah sebabnya.

Padahal kita yang terluka

dan mereka tak tahu apa yang kita rasa.

 

P /s : Allahu Allah.

Shine.

One of our core needs is the need for recognition. As long as we don't feel recognized we experience some kind of fear that we are not enough. Social media owe a big part of their success to the human craving for validation,

and it seems like we have forgotten what it means to have true confidence.

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Confidence is not about looking strong and invulnerable. Confidence is about being who you truly are with all your imperfections because you are not so concerned about what others think of you; you are more concerned about what you think of yourself.

"The insecure compete against other people, while the confident compete against themselves."

Being confident doesn't mean we have to show everyone how good we are;

it means that we know we are enough without having the need to show off.

--

--

"Stars don't shine because they want to be seen; they shine because they are stars."

-

#purposologist

P/s : Alaa burung yang berkicau tadi dah terbang :(

Untuk kita.

Assalamualaikum.

"Aku" dan "Kau" - biar kita merasa lebih dekat.

Dalam hidup ini, antara perkara yang perlu kita pesan pada diri, ada sesuatu Allah tetap tak beri walaupun kita dah sehabis usaha. Contohnya,

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Dalam pelajaran, dalam perhubungan, dalam pekerjaan dan macam-macam perkara.

Dalam pelajaran ; Kau belajar susah payah nak test nak kuiz nak itu nak ini tapi hasilnya biasa-biasa saja, pendek kata langsung tak memuaskan bagi kau. Ataupun kau dah berusaha kumpul carrymarks berlebih-lebih tapi bila result final keluar masih sama tiada perubahan, tak dapat keputusan yang baik. Kau pun mula jeling-jeling orang lain. Lagi sakit hati bila yang duduk study last minit atau study tak banyak mana itulah boleh dapat keputusan lagi hebat dari kau.

Habis tu, kau nak kata apa? Allah sangat tak adil?

Ramai yang rasa dan pernah mengalami situasi macam ni. Aku pun salah seorang yang tak terlepas. Tapi Allah beri rasa bahagia dari sisi lain. Satu saja aku nak pesan, jangan pernah sekalipun salahkan Tuhan.

Sedangkan Dia lebih tahu apa yang lebih baik dan atur untuk kau. Janji kau terus usaha dan tak putus asa. Sebab bila kau usaha tapi masih juga tak dapat apa yang kau nak, memang jelas ada something Allah nak tunjuk dan ajar ; ada sesuatu yang lebih baik untuk kau.

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Okei. Mari cuba kita belajar pandang sisi baik.

Mungkin Allah nak kau terus gigih usaha supaya kau dapat genggam dan gapai sesuatu yang lagi tinggi dan kau tak pernah terfikir pun untuk dapat. Mungkin Allah tak izinkan kau dapat apa yang kau nak sebab kau akan berbangga-bangga, bongkak diri bila Dia beri kejayaan besar pada kau dengan usaha sekecil itu.

 Jadi Dia jatuhkan dulu kau sebelum kau dapat bangun panjat lagi tinggi. Biar kau ingat ; setiap apa yang Allah beri bila-bila saja boleh ditarik balik. Cantikkan jalan cerita yang Allah cipta untuk kita?

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Kawan, hidup ini kita tak boleh terus mengalah bila sekali tak dapat capai apa yang dihajatkan. Kena terus usaha sebab Allah sangat tak suka orang malas. Kau sedih, kau tak puas hati semua terus diadu pada Dia. Aku jamin Dia akan 'pujuk' kau dengan cara paling romantis kalau kau tahu cari Dia.

Nanti bila kau dah terpujuk, bangun dan terus maju kehadapan. Kita belajar dari hidup, dari sekecil-kecil hingga ke sebesar-besar perkara.

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Luaskan pandangan, cari sisi baik setiap takdir yang sudah direncanakan. Jangan asyik cari yang buruk sampai mata hati tertutup dan menggelapkan dunia yang kau hidupkan.

Remember --

Allah loves you more than you can imagine. He saw good in you even when you could not see good in yourself.

#creditnotapencarituhan

p/s : Heads up, u've got this.

You.

I may have met you already, or maybe I haven't yet.

We maybe breathing the same air in this small, quiet city or maybe we are still thousands of miles away right now. I might get to be with you tomorrow or the next day or some years from now. But it doesn't matter because today, I am one day closer.

Right now, I am still in no rush. I probably am not that ready. I am still on the process of being my best self. If I get to meet you at this moment, you might not be my first priority yet. I still spend most of my time building up my career, and I still don't have time to bake for you when you crave for a slice of moist chocolate cake. But, I am preparing myself to become the independent woman that you could grow with.

You also should understand that I have flaws that took me more than twenty years to love. I don't know if you will learn to love them, but I hope you do. My hair doesn't stay in place most of the time, it always messily falls on my face. I don't have the prettiest hand to hold or the brightest eyes to look at. You might also find it weird how my nose wrinkles when I laugh. I am also not attractive when I am fast asleep, but who knows? Maybe those imperfections are what will make you love me even more.

I also want you to know that I am not scratch-free masterpiece. I've damaged a couple of times before. I've been cheated on and that's probably what made me distrustful. I've fought battles where I ended up losing. They probably made me tough. Tougher that needed, actually. You won't imagine how lost I have gotten before you came and how I've been dying for you to find me. I've been waiting for you to embrace the mess that I've become, but I also know that there will come a time that you would hurt me. However unlike the rest, seeing me hurt will hurt you twice as much.

Lastly, I want you to know that I am not easy to love. There will be times where I will get mad over the smallest things. I will always ask you to remind me that I am wanted, I would like to hear that over and over - upon seeing your face in the morning and before I close my eyes at night. I also want you to know that on rough days when I am at the verge of giving up, all you have to do is to lock me up in your arms because deep down, I don't want a second in my life without you.

Indeed above all these, I will always strive to be worthy. I will make the best coffee for you in the morning. I will be there for you after a long day at work and look at you like a superhero who just saved the world. I will give you everything that the past has failed to give you.

I will take all your pain away and I will be the only one you call "home".

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Akhir 2017.

  

Terima kasih untuk semua kenangan.

Terima kasih untuk setiap jatuh bangkit,

luka berdarah, ribut banjir

yang mendatang.

Sungguh,

banyak yang aku belajar.

Terlalu banyak.

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Yang pergi --

terima kasih mewarnai kisah ini.

Yang baru kemari --

moga terus melakar memori.

Yang tak lokek disisi --

tetaplah temani hingga nafas terhenti.

Jangan pernah menyesal dengan apa yang terjadi.

Demi Tuhan,

manisnya kan menjengah nanti.

InsyaAllah.

Hidup mana yang tidak pahit, sulit.

Namun itulah rencahnya.

Buat kita merasa si namanya bahagia.

Sesekali menangislah.

Usah ditahan segala pedih.

Kita masih sebatas manusia.

Yang ada jiwa dan rasa.

Namun tetaplah terus berjuang.

Bukan untuk sesiapa, tetapi buat Tuhanmu cuma.

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Terima kasih untuk segala.

credit #perempuanmatahari

Tanda kasih.

Bahagiaku bukan kerana memiliki segalanya,

tapi kerana bersyukur dengan apa yang ada.

Bahagiaku bukan kerana emas permata,

tapi kerana punya cinta & kasih sayang keluarga yang dijaga.

Bahagiaku bukan kerana aku sempurna,

tapi kerana aku belajar menjadi yang terbaik apa yang aku bisa.

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Sungguh,

kita takkan merasa bahagia hingga mampu

menikmati, mensyukuri, menghargai

dan menjaga segala kurniaNya.

Ya Allah

atas rasa syukur ini,

kurniakanlah kami kebahagiaan untuk selamanya

didunia & akhirat

Aminn --

Wishes.

One year older, one year wiser

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Semoga dipermudahkan jalan rezeki.

Semoga dikurniakan umur yang diberkati.

Semoga tidak menyakiti dan disakiti.

Semoga dicukupkan kesempatan berbakti untuk ibubapa.

-

SELAMAT HARI LAHIR

"You can't calm the storm, so stop trying.

What you can do is calm yourself, the storm will pass"

p/s :dirgahayu.

One call away.

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P/s : O' Allah, guide me when i am lost

Skills.

Nobody is perfect. Everyone can improve. And to improve, you must change.

That is the truth.

To change, you must try new things. New ways and new tools.

Get feedback.

Analyze.

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 Reflect on what worked and what did not.

Adjust yourself accordingly. You will learn. You will grow.

insyaAllah.

Of course, you can use skills to get more good grades in college. Graduate with distinction.

Five years later, no one cares.

 --

But if you got skills, it allows you to learn better

and smarter.

Skills to develop good habits.

Skills to focus, reflect, and persist.

Once you stop learning, you start dying.

_AlbertEinstein_

       

#getinspiredwith  http://www.focus2achieve.com







p/s : Allah knows what your silent heart wants.

    

Niat.

You know,

I get the feeling that a lot of people often forget that our reward is with Allah.

People get worked up because they cannot see the reward of their good deeds in this Dunya and they fail to realize that the reward for the good they do is with Allah. He will reward us when necessary and in His own way with what is best for us, and insyaAllah with Jannah.

Everyone needs to stop looking for rewards in the Dunya.

You are nice to someone but they are not nice back?

Don't give up.

Your reward is with Allah.

We don't do things for the people, we do them for the sake of Allah.

It is about our intentions. So much can be changed into ibaadah just by reforming our intentions. Example, we go to school and study. Not just so we can get an education and to please our parents but also to be educated enough to earn a halal income in the future, to support our families and to spend and give in charity.

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Everything is about intentions.

And the beautiful thing about intention is that they are just between us and Allah.

People don't know our intentions. They can guess but only Allah knows. Sincerely.

p/s : May Allah bless.

#WordlessWednesday

Count the blessings.

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alhamdulillah

p/s : Lapaaaaaaaarrrrrr

Eleventh.

Pernah rasa?

Hati kau dihenyak berkali-kali,

Direnyuk lumatkan tanpa belas,

Hingga jiwa itu mati sendiri.

Ohh ya,

Mungkin kau bukan siapa-siapa,

Jauh sekali punya satu dunia,

Yang ada cuma sipi-sipi saja.

Tetapi,

Barangkali mereka terlupa,

Kau juga spesisnya manusia,

Yang ada hati dan rasa.

#asmilethatcovershatteredheart #perempuanmatahari

p/s : Apa-apa jee asal bolehhh

Trust.

Assalamualaikum and Hi.

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service.

All you can do is playing games.

Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much as love as we want to know that they will only use this love wisely and will never use this love against us.

When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives and know that i will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it and they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it.

Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers.

With trust, a relationship is able to grow.

Without trust, a relationship will crumble.

p/s : may Allah ease.

twentyfifth.

Assalamualaikum.

Hari ini hari apa?

Hari rabu.

 Siti Nur Athirah,

SELAMAT HARI LAHIR :)

Bila gembira atau sedih, ingat

Allah tu selalu ada

tau.

Just because you let them enter your life

They might think they've know you

Thus they judged you
knocked you.

Takpelah. Allah knows even better than you yourself did.

Tersurat tersirat. Terlafaz tersembunyi.

Allah

senyum ok? 

Heads up. Keep walking. This isn't your final destination.

p/s : Semoga Allah permudahkan rezeki athirah.

Sahara kehidupan.

Assalamualaikum.

"Siapa yang tidak minum dari lautan pengalaman,

ia akan mati kehausan di sahara kehidupan.

Kehidupan adalah sebuah sekolah,

masa adalah gurunya,

pengalaman adalah kematangannya." 

 

- Ustaz Ahmad Dusuki Abd Rani

p/s : mengerti bagi yang mengetahui.

Dot.

Assalamualaikum.

Did you see it?

What do you see?

What is your first focus?

The black dot?

Jika ya, maka aku ingin tanyakan suatu hal.

Mengapa hal pertama yang kita lihat adalah titik hitam?

Padahal ternyata warna putih lebih banyak.

Jadi mengapa?

Kerana kita lebih mudah memandang sesuatu dari sisi kekurangannya, sisi kesalahannya, sisi keburukannya.

Padahal ada warna lain yang jumlahnya lebih banyak dari si titik hitam itu. Yang ada kelebihannya, ada kebenarannya, ada kebaikkannya.

Bukankah setiap manusia itu terlahir suci tanpa dosa?

Meskipun manusia itu tidak akan ada yang sempurna.

Jadi mengapa harus berbicara tentang kesalahan dan kekurangan orang lain?

Padahal dalam dirinya pun kesalahan dan kekurangan itu ada.

Adilkah menilai seseorang hanya dengan sebelah mata?

Menghakimi seseorang dengan seburuk-buruknya penilaian?

Hanya kerana satu kesalahan yang dilakukannya?

Cubalah mengerti.

Setiap ruang memiliki dua sisi,

Caramu menilai adalah tergantung dari sisi mana yang kamu pilih untuk memandang.

Jadi,

Mulailah menatap dengan cara yang lain,

Bukan memfokuskan pada kesalahan yang dia lakukan..

Tapi,

lihatlah ada banyak kebaikan yang juga sudah dia lakukan.

Saat kau hanya terfokus hanya pada titik hitam itu,
Aku anggap kamu sedang lupa,
Bahawa putih tetap ada dan menjadi dasar daripada segala warna yang ada.

#asmilethatcovershatteredheart #thetarbiyah

p/s : Sempurna itu hanyalah Allah. Bukan manusia.

Siso.

Assalamualaikum.

Current mode

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.

Mengadap minion-minion kecil ni

Belok blakey laa terik nih! haha

But, puas hati

Sebab buat sendiri

Terima kasih google.com

Berikan idea untuk hasilkan beg 'siso' ini

Hehehe

*siso = goodies bag

Less is more kan?

p/s : Rindu arwah mak. Alfatihah.