Forever.

 

Now that I have seen and experienced so much in my life. I feel that forever is not time bound. Although it is a measure of time but in actual sense, it lies in the small moments that you keep creating as life goes on. Those moments become memories and those memories last till you breathe.

The real meaning of 'forever' signifies loyalty and truthfulness. You giving this word to the person you love, requires honesty in it and you must remain intact as long as you exist in this world.

Let me quote the cliche line --

LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE

Yes!

Had you been aware of the coming times, you would be so conscious that you could never be able to enjoy the present. Don't you agree? And now, you don't know what is next and you cannot foresee the coming tomorrow.

So, you gotta love, care, create, feel and live in between the seconds and the minutes. Understand that your 'forever' is right now, here in this very moment by the side of the person you love and to whom you will love eternally.

'Forever' is hidden in the small moments.

P / s : Count your blessings.

Faith.

Having faith in Allah does not give you some form of immunity towards the problems and challenges of this life.

You can have faith in Allah and still feel sad, hurt, heartbroken and depressed. The thing about faith it is meant to restore hope within you and to remind you that there will be a better tomorrow, but as humans, Allah has created us with complex emotions and we were meant to feel them and yes, that includes feeling sad too.

The point of having faith is not to have problems or remain unfazed by them, it is to know that even in the depths of the darkness you are facing, you are never alone and Allah is always there with you. Your faith is not directly proportional to your emotions, feel them, validate them but know in your heart that better days will come, insyaAllah and you will get through this and there is light at the end of this tunnel, hold on a little more, and just a little more remains.

Salaah, du'a and the Quran are life vests to keep us afloat when we are drowning. It does not mean we won't be thrust in an ocean. It does not mean we won't sometimes feel like we can't breathe and like we are being dragged under.

But,

even when facing the highest wave, even if at times we are swallowing water and gasping for air, it is knowing we have some-One Who will bring us back and keepus afloat and help us get back to the safety of the land again.

And know that despite the negative ways others may make you feel, Allah is the One to Whom you can be vulnerable. Where we can shatter, where we can show every insecurity and know that we are still worthy.

The prophets (PBUH), has shown us that even when others do not understand, even though with your amount of worship, the struggles of life are incredibly overwhelming.

With Allah, you always have a safe place.

"Mental illness is a special trial, no bruises, no evidence. Just a silent battle that Allah has hidden from the world."

P / s: Hasbunallah Wa Ni'mal Wakeel

Hipokrit.

 

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Begitu mudah lisan mengaku sayang, namun sikap sering hadirkan luka. Mungkin hati tulus memberikan cinta namun perilaku tidak enak dirasa. Berukhuwah itu berlandaskan cinta kerana Allah semata. Lantas bila benar-benar cinta mampukah diri berbuat yang sesuai dengan ajaranNya?

Bertutur santun kala bersapaan. Menebar senyum kala berpapasan. Berbincang penuh kelembutan. Dan raut wajah nampak cerah memesonakan.

Jangan pernah sengaja bersikap tidak sopan. Jangan pernah serta merta berbahasa yang mengandung kebencian. Apalagi menampakkan raut wajah penuh permusuhan.

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Apa yang mau dicari, ketika keburukan cermin hati terbaca teman kita? Atau kita bangga dengan hawa nafsu yang sudah mendominasi hati kita? Amarah yang penuh kesumat telah mengikis kesucian jiwa. Padahal bersaudara dengan orang beriman sangat banyak kemanfaatan. Menjaga kita dari kesesatan, menjadi jalan menuju keselamatan, dan di akhirat berhimpun dalam syurga yang penuh keindahan,

Nasihat indah seorang ulama, Yahya bin Mu'adz Ar Razi berkata,

"Hendaknya kamu mempunyai tiga sikap terhadap sesama mukmin; Jika kamu belum mampu memberinya manfaat, maka janganlah kau beri kesusahan. Jika kamu belum mampu membuatnya gembira, janganlah kamu buat sedih. Dan jika kamu belum boleh memujinya, maka janganlah kamu mencela."

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Mudah.

Indah.

InsyaAllah penuh berkah.

Bila kita menjaga ukhuwah dengan akhlakul karimah.

🌷

P/s : Ya hayyu ya qayyum, birahmatika astaghis.

Kamu.

 

Jadilah kamu wanita yang baik hatinya,

bersih suci cinta dan sayangnya,

sikapnya perhatian dan peduli,

perlakuannya lembut dan halus,

bagai kehalusan perasaannya,

manis dan romantis tuturnya,

indah dan teduh penampilannya,

membuat mata dan hati terpana setiap harinya,

menjaga sebagaimana menjaga diri sendiri,

menemani setiap waktu, seperti selalu ada rindu,

baik saat dekat, apalagi ketika jauh.

Jadilah kamu wanita terbaik,

yang menyayangi tanpa batas waktu.

#creditA'yatKhalili

P/s : Ticktockk counting time

Ya Rabb, aku futur tanpa cintamu.

 

Nak tahu cinta Allah bagaimana?

Saat kita jatuh dalam dosa, Allah ketuk pintu hati kita untuk berubah dengan pelbagai cara. Cuma kita yang akan menentukan samada kita mahu berubah ataupun tidak. "Wahai Tuhanku, janganlah engkau pesongkan hati aku sesudah engkau berikan petunjuk (hidayah) kepadaku."

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Banyak manapun dosa kita ;

kita tak solat lima waktu,

tak berpuasa dibulan ramadhan,

tak menutup aurat dengan sempurna,

hatta dosa kita menggunung tinggi sekalipun,

berlarilah semula kepada Allah. 

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Kerana Allah yang datangkan ujian dalam hidup kita.

Maka, selayaknya Allah jualah tempat untuk kita meminta pertolongan. Luahkan segalanya hanya pada yang pemberi ujian iaitu Allah. Kerana itu adalah tanda kekuatan dan kebergantungan kita kepada Allah. Yakinlah itu Allah Maha Mendengar. Benar-benar Maha Mendengar. Sungguh tiada sebaik-baik pendengar yang setia melainkan hanya Allah yang Mengetahui akan segala isi hati.

Berulang kali Allah bagitahu dalam Al-Quran,

"Bahawa tiap kesukaran itu disertai kemudahan."

Dan Allah siap bagitahu bila kita mahu berharap, cukuplah kita hanya berharap kepada Allah. Datangi Allah dalam apa jua cara. Meskipun kamu sampai harus merangkak di padang pasir demi untuk mendekati redha dan cinta Allah, lakukanlah.

--

Dan janganlah mencari Allah hanya bila kita perlu sesuatu daripada Allah.

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p/s : Peninggggg :(

Shine.

One of our core needs is the need for recognition. As long as we don't feel recognized we experience some kind of fear that we are not enough. Social media owe a big part of their success to the human craving for validation,

and it seems like we have forgotten what it means to have true confidence.

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Confidence is not about looking strong and invulnerable. Confidence is about being who you truly are with all your imperfections because you are not so concerned about what others think of you; you are more concerned about what you think of yourself.

"The insecure compete against other people, while the confident compete against themselves."

Being confident doesn't mean we have to show everyone how good we are;

it means that we know we are enough without having the need to show off.

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"Stars don't shine because they want to be seen; they shine because they are stars."

-

#purposologist

P/s : Alaa burung yang berkicau tadi dah terbang :(

Tempat kerja.

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Ustaz Pahrol pernah kata,

"Tempat kerja tempat yang lama kita berada. Jika balik rumah, kita balik dan tidur. Di tempat kerja kita jumpa dan berurusan dengan orang. Jika kita tidak bahagia di tempat kerja maka kita tidak bahagia."

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Nasihat Dr Fadilah Kamsah kepada mereka yang mahu berhenti kerja sebab tak boleh kerja dengan orang, sebab rasa tak dihargai, sebab kawan-kawan tak ngam dengan kita,

"Betulkan diri kita dahulu. Betulkan niat kita. Doakan semoga orang-orang yang tiada hubungan baik dengan kita akan menjadi baik dengan kita, doakan untuk bos supaya bos sayang kita, doakan untuk company semoga company sukses."

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Sebenarnya senang kita nak rasa disayangi ditempat kerja. Sangat mudah nak dihormati, dipercayai dan rasa tenang ditempat kerja.

• Tanamkan niat kerja kerana Allah. Pasti Allah bantu niat kita yang lain seperti nak bantu keluarga, nak bayar hutang dsb..
• Buat baik dengan semua orang, dengan kawan-kawan sekerja, dengan pembantu, dengan pelanggan, dengan pelawat dsb..
• Jangan mengadu domba. Nampak kesalahan orang, mudah adu pada bos dan jadi bahan umpatan dengan kawan-kawan. Jangan mulakan! Ini virus, pembunuh senyap ditempat kerja.
• Berlapang dada dengan apa jua yang dihadapi ditempat kerja. Tenang akan selalu menang :)
• Sentiasa ucap terima kasih pada bos dan kawan-kawan.
• Mohon maaf jika bersalah. Jangan ego.
• Senyum, usah mudah sangat berubah muka (Ini cabaran jugak bagi aku, dushh ==')

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Tempat kerja adalah rumah kedua kita. Tempat kita mencari rezeki. Jika ditempat kerja kita bermain dengan perasaan; kita tidak suka dengan rakan sekerja, kita membenci, bagaimana doa kita mahu dimakbul Allah?

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"Sebaik-baik manusia adalah yang memberi manfaat pada yang lain."

Semoga kita mampu.

Allah ease.

P/s : Penat tapi seronok :)

Rules.

Don't break a bird's wings and then tell it to fly.

Don't break a heart and then tell it to love.

Don't break a soul and then tell it to be happy.

Don't see the worst in a person and expect them to stand by your side.

Don't play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe.

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Life is about giving and taking.

You can't expect to give bad and receive good.

You also can't expect to give good and receive bad.

Does it happen?

Yes, but don't make that an excuse for you to keep doing what you know is wrong.

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So?

Don't blame life for what you do.

P/s : O' Allah make it easy for me, not difficult. Aaminn.

Agama.

--

Orang tua-tua dulu selalu pesan kepada anak mereka yang akan merantau jauh dengan mereka,


"Solat kamu jangan sesekali tinggal tau"

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Bila difahami betul-betul, pesanan itu membawa seribu makna. Dalam tempoh pembesaran kita, setiap ibubapa mempunyai tanggungjawab untuk mendidik bab agama kepada anak masing-masing. Setiap ibubapa tahu anak dia setakat mana. Sebab tu kadang-kadang, jangan marah mak ayah kita kalau tidak diizinkan untuk merantau. Sebab mereka tahu jikalau kita jauh dengan mereka, agama kita akan tergadai. Sebab apa? Solat kita pun cincai-cincai, disuruh solat pun sempat lagi membalas whatsapp.

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Sebab itu apabila ibubapa yang betul-betul mendidik anak mereka dengan agama, mereka akan berasa senang hati untuk melepaskan anak mereka merantau di negeri orang. Kerana mereka tahu, didikan agama sudah diberi. Yang tinggal hanyalah diri sendiri untuk membawa diri di negeri orang.

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Sahabat sekalian, ketahuilah. Kemana sahaja kamu melangkah, agama itu jangan sesekali kamu tinggal. Amalkan betul-betul didikan agama yang telah diberi supaya tidak terlalai dengan permainan dunia. Uruslah dunia ini dengan agama. Tuntutlah ilmu agama walau di mana kamu berada.

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Moga-moga Allah permudahkan urusan kita semua 💕

p/s : Lagi tinggi harapan, lagi besar kekecewaan.

Muharram 1440H.

Tahun baru islam.

Moga makin bertambah amal dan bekal.

Bekal menuju sana.

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Maafkan semua.

Benar semua orang buat salah. Dan semua orang juga berhak berubah. Semua orang berhak untuk dicintai Allah.

Hari esok masih ada, tapi belum pasti tetapi belum pasti untuk kita. Sama ada berpeluang atau tidak untuk bernafas keesokan harinya dan melihat senyuman dunia.

Alangkah baiknya jika lafaz dan fikiran kita adalah taubat, muhasabah serta perbanyakkan doa, moga kita sentiasa hidup dan mati dalam husnul khotimah ; pengakhiran hidup baik-baik saja.

Bukankah itu yang selalu menjadi harapan kita?

Moga kehadiran bulan baru dalam takwim hijriah ini menjadikan kita hamba yang lebih baik dan bertaqwa.

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Jadi baik jangan tunggu usia tua kerana mati juga bisa datang saat kita masih muda.

Moga Tuhan selalu sayang 🍁

 credit #notapencarituhan #elheejrah

 

You.

I may have met you already, or maybe I haven't yet.

We maybe breathing the same air in this small, quiet city or maybe we are still thousands of miles away right now. I might get to be with you tomorrow or the next day or some years from now. But it doesn't matter because today, I am one day closer.

Right now, I am still in no rush. I probably am not that ready. I am still on the process of being my best self. If I get to meet you at this moment, you might not be my first priority yet. I still spend most of my time building up my career, and I still don't have time to bake for you when you crave for a slice of moist chocolate cake. But, I am preparing myself to become the independent woman that you could grow with.

You also should understand that I have flaws that took me more than twenty years to love. I don't know if you will learn to love them, but I hope you do. My hair doesn't stay in place most of the time, it always messily falls on my face. I don't have the prettiest hand to hold or the brightest eyes to look at. You might also find it weird how my nose wrinkles when I laugh. I am also not attractive when I am fast asleep, but who knows? Maybe those imperfections are what will make you love me even more.

I also want you to know that I am not scratch-free masterpiece. I've damaged a couple of times before. I've been cheated on and that's probably what made me distrustful. I've fought battles where I ended up losing. They probably made me tough. Tougher that needed, actually. You won't imagine how lost I have gotten before you came and how I've been dying for you to find me. I've been waiting for you to embrace the mess that I've become, but I also know that there will come a time that you would hurt me. However unlike the rest, seeing me hurt will hurt you twice as much.

Lastly, I want you to know that I am not easy to love. There will be times where I will get mad over the smallest things. I will always ask you to remind me that I am wanted, I would like to hear that over and over - upon seeing your face in the morning and before I close my eyes at night. I also want you to know that on rough days when I am at the verge of giving up, all you have to do is to lock me up in your arms because deep down, I don't want a second in my life without you.

Indeed above all these, I will always strive to be worthy. I will make the best coffee for you in the morning. I will be there for you after a long day at work and look at you like a superhero who just saved the world. I will give you everything that the past has failed to give you.

I will take all your pain away and I will be the only one you call "home".

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Akhir 2017.

  

Terima kasih untuk semua kenangan.

Terima kasih untuk setiap jatuh bangkit,

luka berdarah, ribut banjir

yang mendatang.

Sungguh,

banyak yang aku belajar.

Terlalu banyak.

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Yang pergi --

terima kasih mewarnai kisah ini.

Yang baru kemari --

moga terus melakar memori.

Yang tak lokek disisi --

tetaplah temani hingga nafas terhenti.

Jangan pernah menyesal dengan apa yang terjadi.

Demi Tuhan,

manisnya kan menjengah nanti.

InsyaAllah.

Hidup mana yang tidak pahit, sulit.

Namun itulah rencahnya.

Buat kita merasa si namanya bahagia.

Sesekali menangislah.

Usah ditahan segala pedih.

Kita masih sebatas manusia.

Yang ada jiwa dan rasa.

Namun tetaplah terus berjuang.

Bukan untuk sesiapa, tetapi buat Tuhanmu cuma.

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Terima kasih untuk segala.

credit #perempuanmatahari

Luka.

I think what hurts the most is

when you give your all to someone.

Through thick and thin,

you are there for them,

you stick with them,

no matter what.

--

Then one day they just give up.

They won't even fight for you.

--

The one thing you would never have done,

they did with no hesitation. 

p/s : Semoga kesusahan bisa mengajar erti terus asa.

Bersendiri.

Malam ini aku rasa sunyi tanpa sebab.

Tiada bunyi.

Tiada rasa.

Hatiku denyutnya sendirian.

Seolah hati ini bagai tin kosong

yang luas jisimnya,

tapi kurang isinya.

Aku bingung apakah erti rasa ini?

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Mungkin Allah beri aku ruang sendiri dan waktu,

untuk aku lebih kenal siapa aku

dalam aku.

Mother, i miss you.

Allah--

Beauty.

 I love deep thinkers.

People who see more than a blue sky, more than green grass,

more than a beautiful storm,

and a starlight night.

But rather they see the Creator and His beauty and perfection in everything they see

and it increases their love for Him.

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"Indeed, in the creation of the heavens and the earth and the alternation of the night and the day are signs for those of understanding." [3:190]

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O' Allah, make us people of reflection, of deep thought and humility.

p/s : Alhamdulillah a'la kulli hal

Eternal hope.

I hope you fall in love with someone who always texts back

and never lets you fall asleep thinking you are unwanted

I hope you fall in love with someone who holds your hand during the worst parts of life

and getting back with you even when you are too busy with the chaos

I hope you fall in love with someone who sees the galaxies in your eyes

and hears the music in your heartbeats

I hope you fall in love with someone who tickles you

and makes you smile on hard days and on easy ones

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But beyond all that,

i hope you fall in love with someone who will never leave you behind

and who will never take you for granted,

someone who will stand by you when you are right

and stand by you when you are wrong.

Someone who has seen you at your worst and has loved you still. 

p/s : Hasbunallahu Wani'mal Wakeel

Skills.

Nobody is perfect. Everyone can improve. And to improve, you must change.

That is the truth.

To change, you must try new things. New ways and new tools.

Get feedback.

Analyze.

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 Reflect on what worked and what did not.

Adjust yourself accordingly. You will learn. You will grow.

insyaAllah.

Of course, you can use skills to get more good grades in college. Graduate with distinction.

Five years later, no one cares.

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But if you got skills, it allows you to learn better

and smarter.

Skills to develop good habits.

Skills to focus, reflect, and persist.

Once you stop learning, you start dying.

_AlbertEinstein_

       

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p/s : Allah knows what your silent heart wants.